“This blog is written from
Aaliya’s perspective”
After spending some time in the
waters we decided to sit on the shore for a while
Without talking anything
Without looking at each other
But we knew we
were together
Though I had a boyfriend in the
past and I was very comfortable with him but now I wanted a change.
My family has been very liberal
with me, never questioning my choices and judgments but now I want someone to make
choices and decide for me.
Not that I don’t want to do them
myself but I want my significant other to do that.
I want him to take the lead
I want him to tell me the right and wrong
I want his point of view
I want him to be someone I can always look up to and be sure that whatever
he suggests would be good for US
And not just for me.
Frankly I loved the life I have
been blessed with till now, but not any more.
I want him to be worried
Worried for me
I want him to think from the perspective that I have not and cannot
think.
Do all the thinking for me
I want him to know about my mood and reactions even before I react.
Anticipate my behaviour
Know that I like to be free but still try to keep me controlled and at
the same time not killing my freedom.
Let me live
I want him to know when I don’t
like something, even before I tell him
I want him to tell me when I am
putting on weight and not lie, though I might not like it but still
I want him to let me try
something new but at the same time be by side in case anything goes wrong
I want him to express his love
for me
EVERY DAY
Maybe by just saying that he loves me but still do it
And not get bored of doing it
EVERYDAY
Even if we are mad at each other
I want us to cuddle and sleep
each night irrespective of how the good or bad the day goes
I want him to kiss me bye every
day, when he leaves home
I don’t want him to be rich, I
want him to keep me happy every day of my life
I want him to call me randomly to
express his love
I want him to be there for me all
the time
When I am menstruating and grumpy
When I am putting on weight during pregnancy
When I crave for something stupid in the middle of the night
When I am delivering my kids
When I am growing old and not pretty any more
Would he be able to do it??
Would he do it?
Does he love me enough??
Would he even be in touch after
this trip??
Would whatever he has expressed still
stand?
Would he remember me once he gets
busy with his studies?
Coz remembering someone is one
thing and not able to forget is a completely different thing
Would he ??
Very nicely written , everything that u wrote in this post are very common things that every women. Looks for from the man in her life.
ReplyDeleteAgree common, but does the male species fulfil it ??
DeleteReading this blog, looks to be reading my own mind.. Expectations of a gurl from his ideal partner is expressed with every minute details.. Loved it!
ReplyDeleteMy favorite lines this time: "One who knows dat i like to be free but try to keep me controlled not killing my freedom" :)
Aah, hope i havent failed in expressing what a 'girl' expects ...
DeleteWould he???
ReplyDeleteYes I think he would :)
Lovya:)
That's all I wanna say and wanna believe :)